The fairytale always ends with living happily ever after. It's beautiful of course, yet it is still an ending... and I don't want my story to end... our story... It begins when we meet and…
Sometimes the pace of life and it’s changes can become almost overwhelming - we all experience times of adventure, excitement, stress and crisis, terrible and beautiful storms to navigate. And even when life’s journey isn’t…
I was asked by a journalist yesterday what one thing I would tell someone who was considering exploring polyamory. In the blur of the interview I'm not entirely sure what I said, so I thought…
"Oh, Fred, I've been so foolish. I've fallen in love. I'm an ordinary woman. I didn't think such violent things could happen to ordinary people". I can hear those words in my head, as uttered…
Building consent culture isn't easy. It involves people and communication and boundaries - and there's a lot to navigate, especially when you consider that the prevailing cultural paradigm is one of entitlement. Entitlement culture is…
"So they're your main partner, then?" "Which is the most important relationship?" "If you really love them you put them first" These are words I frequently hear from my monogamous friends when we're talking about my non-monogamous relationships. The…
If you're looking for love, or sex, or romance, or connection, how do you go about it? That initial connection can be elusive. We can't all just stand around on steam train platforms like Celia…
"I love you" - the 3 little words you're supposed to long to hear, or wait to say... words that can change lives forever... words imbued with such importance and meaning that poets, musicians, academics,…
I've believed for a long time that the personal is political... with a small p (I'm not talking about party politics, nor even government here.) We all make choices about how to behave. We balance…
The one... Girl meets boy, dates happen, a relationship is formed, it gets serious and exclusive, and a commitment is made, promises, a house is shared, perhaps kids... they live happily ever after, til death…