The One – a love letter

First published 31/12/19 on our Patreon site: I feel that one of the most problematic and insidious parts of ‘the script’ about love and relationships is the false premise that somebody else can make you happy – and that finding the right romantic partner should be the most important goal, the centre and focus […]

It is what it is

“So they’re your main partner, then?” “Which is the most important relationship?” “If you really love them you put them first” These are words I frequently hear from my monogamous friends when we’re talking about my non-monogamous relationships. The script tells us that that humans should be part of a couple – one, romantic/sexual relationship/partnership. My friends can accept that […]